we Made it in America

Last weekend I attended the 2014 Budweiser Made in America Festival in Philly and it was everything I hoped it would be. These were some memorable moments in no particular order.

1. Kanye.
He rapped. He sang. He ranted. He wanted people to mosh? It was Kanye.

2. Pharrell.
So it rained that day. and we waited 2 hours IN the pouring rain. ended up getting front row spots. Pharrell was incredible and killed it obviously.

3. Drugs and Beer.
Festivals are one of the only places where people just openly do drugs and its like…eh. The BEST part actually was the people who took just one step too far. Lets make a reality show that follows all of the paramedics that take all the drunk druggies away.

4. Rain.
It poured. Like literally POURED. They told everyone to evacuate so obviously no one did. Instead we took the opportunity to get front row seats for Pharrell. RIP shoes and crown 😦

Other memorable moments:

5. Kings of Leon doing an encore with Sex on Fire.
6. Losing my phone and friends during J Cole’s set.
7. Danny Brown being weird AF and it being amazing.
8. A constant stream of house music.
9. YG’s FREE MEEK set.
10. Dressing ‘festival chic’

Here are some low quality pics and from my SnapChat.

 

 

The Summer Netflix Binge of 2014

*update* After writing this post I realized it probably seems like I have no life or job which is not TOTALLY true. Ok the ‘no life’ part is true but I do have a job. and have actually been quite busy this summer. Wait why am I even justifying my TV show obsession? Good bye.

I went on a Netflix binge starting about 3 months ago. Here are my thoughts on the shows I watched.

 

Friday Night Lights

Clear eyes…full hearts….can’t…stop….crying.

I realized I’m about 6 years late on Friday Night Lights. After being recommended to me by like 7 different people and feeling extremely left out of the FNL fandom on Tumblr, I caved. Best. Decision. Ever.

This was probably one of the best shows I have ever watched in my life. Like crying during every episode good. and not the sad kind of crying..like worlds-happiest-mother crying because I am so happy for these characters (very out of character). Even as the series progressed and old characters left and new characters took over…which is usually the sign of a shows demise…it was STILL good. Like just as good. I don’t even know what it is. I’m not super into football or high school dramas but this show was different.

 

Orange is the New Black

This goes without saying. If the first season was gold then this season was platinum…or something better than gold. The character development of this show is ridiculous. I’m obsessed with all of the characters and their back stories. I actually became obsessed with Morello even more if that’s possible. She is bat-shit crazy and I absolutely love it because you would never even know. Not sure what that says about my judge of character but her back story had to be my favorite. For season 3 I hope they go even deeper into why they’re all actually in prison. Also less Piper, more everyone else = yes. You go Jenji Kohan.

 

Bob’s Burgers

If you don’t watch Bobs Burgers I don’t think we can even be friends because you won’t get any of my jokes. You don’t even have to watch it in order. Just watch like 2 episodes.

I am Tina and Tina is every average adolescent girl. I’m obsessed that she is so obsessed with boys and butts. Tina perfectly embodies how it feels to be that age. I have to admit that following my Netflix binge I basically just watch Bob’s Burgers on repeat now. Bob is everyone’s dad and Lynn is that mom that you wish you had but also are glad is not you’re mom. Every character is relate-able to the viewers in one way or another.

 

Broad City 

best. show. ever. If you want a brief glimpse as to what it would be like if my best friend lived in New York city and lived out our fantasies, it would be Broad City. Broad City is like a more watchable version of GIRLS. IMO. No hate on Lena Dunham but Broad City doesn’t make you want to kill yourself for being an under-employed twenty-something, it makes you embrace the fact that you enjoy getting high and not really caring about the fact that you’re expected to join the actual adult world.

It also teaches viewers how to properly dispose of poop if the toilet stops working, and how to hide illegal substances in your vagina. LIFE LESSONS.

 

House of Cards

I was hesitant about hopping on the HoC train just because its all everyone was talking about. and being a Scandal fan, I wasn’t sure if I could handle another sexy political drama. At first I was skeptical. It seemed very predictable. Political corruption, backstabbing and blackmailing…blah blah blah….and then someone got pushed in front of a train and my life was turned upside down. LIKE WHAT????????????????

Like really……what????? Wasn’t she the main character???? The story was JUST getting started…….WHO DOES THAT.

Not even Shonda  could’ve written a death like that.

I am still in mourning.

I don’t even want to finish this post.

and then season 2 ended exactly how I pictured it would.

Obviously I will be watching Season 3. against my will though.

 

This is why moving sucks.

About a month ago I moved into my 4th apartment since moving out of my parents house. One thing about moving. It sucks.

But it sucks in levels. First you’re all excited about finding a new place. You see it and immediately envision your new life there. You sign a lease and your content. Then come the fees. Everyone seems to forget about the fees. Application fee, security deposit, pet fee, cable setup fee, parking, first months rent..etc etc etc. You basically drain your entire bank account before you even get the keys.

Then there’s packing. There’s levels to packing as well. You look around at all your crap and estimate that you’ll need a certain number of boxes. Take that number and multiply by two because you WILL need them. Every time I move I tell myself I’m going to minimize. HA.

Pro tip: down a bottle of wine and throw away everything that reminds of you things you don’t want to remember. Like that shirt you wore the night you got rejected and can now never wear again. 

If you’re moving into your first place or just want new stuff, you have the pleasure of getting to quickly realize how unnecessarily expensive furnishing an apartment is. Now I know what every one is going to say. “just go to Ikea, they have everything and it’s cheap.”

Umm yeah. Ikea sucks. You may think its like mecca for interior decorating but you’re wrong. Unless you have a boyfriend willing to asseble everything from a couch to some storage bins (EVEN THE BINS DONT COME ASSEMBLED). THEN if you ever decide to move again…RIP to all the things you built yourself without really reading the instructions. Notice all the broken dressers in front of houses on your block? Those all belong to Ikea enthusiasts who thought their $100 MALM dresser would last through their twenties.

 

Here’s what I can say about moving around a lot. If you need to stay in the same city, and you’re young, move as much as you can. Explore new neighborhoods. But move for yourself. Don’t move to leave your problems behind or to potentially be closer to someone. That never works. Your problems will follow you wherever you go so at least make sure you like where you’re coming home to.

Harry grows Horns

In case you don’t know, I’m a self-proclaimed Harry Potter fanatic. So of course I was super excited to see this trailer premiere at ComiCon. Danny plays a guy who is accused of murdering his girlfriend and then..grows horns? It all seems very weird but I’m obviously still going to see it. At one point he has a snake around his neck, which I mean..come ON…heir of Slytherin??

I’m still not a fan of his American accent. But I digress.

7 Texts That Sum Up The Modern 20-Something Experience

This is pretty accurate IMO. I’m guilty of preferring to talk about doing things than doing actual things. Texting ruined everything. I don’t want to tell people where I’m going or what I’m doing. Tracking me down and forcing me to do things is the only way.

What’s my age again?

After 21 birthday’s start to become sad. You always feel awesome that it’s your birthday, but it’s never really as good as you hope it will be. You have all these expectations that don’t ever REALLY get met within those 24 hours. For me birthday’s are just a reminder that another year has gone by I’m still not where I want to be. [Of course I feel “blessed” to be alive to see another birthday blah blah blah]

I was told that your odd years are always the best ones. Which, thinking back, could be true. (with the exception of 19 which I feel like just sucks all around for everyone) I predict 23 being a good year. I mean 23 worked for Jordan right?

The mantra for my birthday has been “nobody likes you when you’re 23” (*Mark Hoppus voice*). You’re  young enough to make mistakes but old enough to know better. It’s kind of the best of both worlds in a messed up way. Still, nobody takes you seriously yet so you might as well do whatever the hell  makes you happy.

Misogyny at it’s finest.

A couple days ago Floyd Mayweather posted this tweet:

Dress how you want to be addressed pic.twitter.com/Imj5yRDjh3

— Floyd Mayweather (@FloydMayweather) June 13, 2014

I didn’t expect to get as angry as I did because I don’t really consider myself as someone who dresses exceptionally revealing or sexy (unless the occasion calls for it) but for some reason this really pissed me off. Men like Floyd Mayweather see women as objects that they can comment on and control for their own entertainment.

Saying that a women is asking to be disrespected because of what she is wearing is absolutely ridiculous. Especially coming from a man who beats the shit out of people for a living. Sure, what someone wears is definitely a reflection of how they are viewed as a person but it is not what defines them as a person. As a woman I am free to show any part of my body that I please and I still deserve the same amount of respect as anyone else.

Are men so afraid or threatened by the female anatomy that they have to publicly disrespect women who are confident enough to wear whatever they please? I don’t think it’s so much that are afraid or threatened but that they are so insecure in their own self control and abilities to control themselves around women who dress “sexy”. It’s easy for a man to see a woman dressed scandalously, pick her up, sleep with her and then call her a slut. It seems that it would be a lot more difficult for a man to control himself around a woman wearing a certain outfit..and as punishment for their lack of self control men expect women to dress conservatively as to not put them in compromising positions where they’re unable to think with the brain inside their heads.

AND HONESTLY. It doesn’t even matter how women dress. Women get harassed and objectified every day, walking down the street, wearing basic shit like jeans and t-shirts. It’s just so much easier for men to blame women for their actions saying that their outfit is what caused them to act the way that they did.

Things like this are what makes women think that things like rape and assault are their own fault and not the fault of their attacker. Like they should be blamed for being assaulted because of what they are wearing rather than the fucked up thoughts that men have when they see a women in a particular outfit.

Misogyny at it’s finest.

Summer Jam 2014: In review

June 1, 2014 marked the 2014 Summer Jam music festival hosted by Hot 97 at MetLife Stadium in New Jersey. This was my first year attending Summer Jam and the first time I had really been to a music festival of this caliber. I had no idea what to expect other than the advertised set of artists. Certain aspects of the show exceeded my expectations. I hate the word epic but it was pretty epic.

First of all: I was really only expecting (and excited) to see a select few among all of these that were advertised to be there such as Wayne, Nicki, 50 Cent, Wiz Khalifa, The Roots, Childish Gambino, Jhene Aiko, Nas and Iggy Azalea.

What I was not expecting is that basically every artist relevant in music today (and 10 years ago..*cough* G-UNIT *cough*) would show up and make an appearance.

First there was the festival stage. Notable performers included Iggy Azalea, Jhene Aiko, Childish Gambino and others that people basically used as alcohol breaks. Iggy was Iggy, she had a lot of energy and no one really paid attention until ‘Fancy’ which she ended with. She did have dancers which is always fun to see on stage. I was most looking forward to see Jhene and Childish perform ‘Bed Peace’ together, which they did and it was fantastic. Jhene looked flawless and I immediately want to copy her entire wardrobe. I was skeptical about how Jhene would sound live but she surprised me and I was really impressed by her performance. Childish killed it as well. My only wish is that he would have done some of this older stuff like ‘Heartbeat’ or ‘Freaks and Geeks’ but each artist really only had time to do 3 or 4 songs for their set.

After some tailgating, parking lot loitering, and almost getting punched in the face by a drunk bitch who was unaware of how to act at concerts…we finally made our way up about 6 stories to our seats in MetLife Stadium. For how much we spent on tickets they should’ve thrown in a pair of binoculurs because damn…we were FAR. Although! After being in the pit for the majority of concerts it was nice to have a seat and not live in fear of being suffocated or elbowed in the face.

Action Bronson had a good set. The cameras mostly focused on his choice to perform barefoot. Then there was Wiz Khalifa. I’ve seen Wiz in concert before and he’s actually a really good performer. Then came the first surprise of the evening when he brought out Snoop Dogg.(!!!) Which was awesome.

I’m not going to mull on the rest of the performers. Nas was there and brought out French Montana and Meek Mill. Meek KILLED IT. Anytime he does ‘Dreams and Nightmares’ the crowd is guaranteed to go off.  Trey Songz came out and killed it per usual. He even threw in a little “Free Breezy” chant (UPDATE: Chris Brown was released from jail the very next day so obviously it was because of our chant). Somewhere in there as a G-Unit reunion which, ok, was pretty cool. There were about 85 people on stage at this point and I really had no idea what 50 Cent was saying but G-Unit was there. He didn’t do ‘In Da Club’ which upset me, but I couldn’t be upset for long because pretty soon Nicki Minaj came out.

Nicki did her amazing rendition of ‘Boss Ass Bitch’ followed by her verses from ‘Monster’, and ‘Up All Night’. She also performed ‘Did it on ’em’ which is one of my forgotten favorites. At one point even Soulja Boy came out to assist in performing their new song ‘Yass Bitch’ (yes the actual name of the song).

THEN!!!!!!! Nicki says she has an announcement..she proceeds to talk about a certain member of YMCMB that she is very angry at…how they used to be cool but not anymore because…MF’ers never loved her………………….

YES. OMG. DRAKE!!!!! Drake came out guns blazing and performed ‘Worst Behavior’. He did some other songs too but by that point everything had become a euphoric blur of screaming and crying and a little bit of hyperventilating. (I love Drake. if you couldn’t tell)

Eventually Wayne came out, did ‘Believe Me’ with Drake, and his part of ‘Loyal’.

At that point…nothing else mattered and nothing was the same, so we left.

Here is a list of basically everyone that was there:

Jhene Aiko, Iggy Azalea, Childish Gambino, Trey Songz, Nicki Minaj, Lil Wayne, Drake, Soulja Boy, Kid Ink, Mack Wilds, Chinx, August Alsina, Snoop Dogg, Nas, Meek Mill, French Montana, The Roots, 50 Cent, G-unit, Fabolous, Nipsey Hussle, The Lox, Yo Gotti, Ty Dolla $ign, DJ Mustard, A$AP Ferg, ad more that I can’t remember.

I also really enjoyed Jersey so Summer Jam may become an annual thing.

I’ll say things that are serious and put them in a joke form so people can enjoy them. We laugh to keep from crying.

I have a love/hate relationship with Kanye West. I say this like I actually know him personally…But I look at everything from a PR perspective. At first I thought he was arrogant and everything he said deserved the hashtag #richpeopleprobs. But I’m starting to understand where he’s coming from and why he acts the way he does.

He considers himself a visionary. and if you really look back at what he has accomplished, he is. His approach is just one that makes people angry, which causes people to not take him seriously, which then makes him angry. I get it, it’s a vicious cycle. It’s extremely frustrating when people don’t take you seriously, and your means of expressing yourself, the only way you really know how, is the main reason people write you off. I feel you, Kanye.

I’m a huge Kanye West (the musician) fan. No matter what I say or what he does I’m gonna keep listening to his music.

He was on the second night of Late Night with Seth Meyers and I thought he handled himself very well. You can tell he wasn’t coached into saying things for interview purposes but it’s so funny how hard he tries to please, while simultaneously preaching that he doesn’t care.

Anyways, I’m really excited for Seth Meyers taking over Late Night. He has great chemistry with guests.

 

 

The social media struggle

I just started my last semester of graduate school. (yay..kind of)

My first class of the semester is a graduate-level social media research class. I like research, and I’m fascinated by how social media affects people. (Notice I didn’t say I ‘like’ social media…See previous post). But now I am torn.

I had previously been operating two personal twitter accounts. Being a mass comm major, a lot of professors thought they would “challenge” the class by having us tweet throughout the semester. Knowing that the account would be monitored by people controlling my grade made me extremely uncomfortable so I created a “professional” twitter account. On this account I would tweet PR and classroom related things…then, subsequently, would go on my “personal” twitter account and complain about how stupid the assignment is.

Now being in grad school, I care much less about the perception of my tweets from my peers but the thought of a professor reading all of my stupid twenty-something, related tweets still makes me uncomfortable. Even though my personal twitter shows my true personality…do I want professionals to see that? In a way I do, because this is who I am. Another part of me is like “Sarah grow up. If you don’t want professionals seeing those tweets than maybe you shouldn’t tweet them?” but then again I think..well..it is MY account and I’m free to say whatever i want, right!?

This is my social media struggle. HELP!

UPDATE: This article “5 Questions to Ask Before Posting to Social Media” is great!